The three Gabor sisters, Magda, Zsa Zsa and Eva were born in Budapest, Hungary to their father Vilmos and their mother Jolie.  From very early on the girls were given enormous opportunities to learn multiple foreign languages, a variety of winter sports and were always known for their stunning appearances.  I would imagine it would be hard to take the three girls places and not have them get attention.

I called but no one answered

I watched the women in my family miss decades of relationships together over issues they didn’t even know the reason for. The stubborn streak is strong, the sense of dignity courses through the veins, no one shall break the code when there is silence.

We shalt not ask, not make the first move, instead we wait .. decades by the off chance that we meet and each others defenses are down.